Monday, February 20, 2006
Sunday, February 19, 2006
not love sick =)
i believe that if you appreciate or admire someone,
you should at least let her know at least in APPROPRIATE
TIMES. i believe that there's no harm in showing
your admiration to another coz basically, all people
want and need to be appreciated. Caution! One shouldn't
be caught up with too much emotion cause its the one that
will make you do the most irrational things. Be yourself.
if your not ready to be in a relationship right now,
don't force yourself. The time will come when you will
find the right person. As for now, you should share
the love you have especially to the ones you appreciate
most. Remember, Be Yourself! don't do anything that
you wouldn't normally do. You may be able to put up to
it for a week, even months, but hopefully not even years
coz eventually, your true self will show. Your habits,
your likes, dislikes, how you look without all the beauty
products. If the person you like don't like you the way
you are, then its goodbye to him/her. There are plenty
other of people out there. But you should also be wary,
and keep a close eye on your bad habits, not so good
traits, and other weaknesses. For if these weaknesses
are the reasons why people don't like you, you should
change for the better. Be Yourself! achieve what you
want to achieve in life, study hard, play hard, enjoy
life! Work to make this world a better place to live
in! I'm sure you'll find the right person for you and
if not, the right person will find you! You should also
share your love to as much people as possible. If you
admire someone, there's no better time to tell her or
show her you admire her than now. Caution! again, you
SHOULD NOT! fall only for a pretty face! I mean, don't
fall in love to a person just because of their outside
appearance! That's NOT LOVE! That's Infatuation! I believe
that beauty is so over rated nowadays. I'm sure beauty
can get you to high places but the downside is you'll find
it very difficult to find true love... simply because you
are beautiful. Men can be so simple-minded that its
hard for them to resist to be attracted to a beautiful
face and a beautiful body. Men are men after all. They
are easily tempted by a woman's physical appearance and
to those who has curves in the right places. Men that are
into this should double their defenses cause appreciation
is one thing and lust is another. If perverted thoughts
cross your mind, better look away! and stay away! These
temptations will only ruin your life and change your
morals for the worse without you even noticing it.
LoVE IS NOT SKIN DEEP! Biblically speaking, the definition
of love may be found in the new testament,
1 Corinthians 13. It's easy enough to understand but
very hard to put to practice.
you should at least let her know at least in APPROPRIATE
TIMES. i believe that there's no harm in showing
your admiration to another coz basically, all people
want and need to be appreciated. Caution! One shouldn't
be caught up with too much emotion cause its the one that
will make you do the most irrational things. Be yourself.
if your not ready to be in a relationship right now,
don't force yourself. The time will come when you will
find the right person. As for now, you should share
the love you have especially to the ones you appreciate
most. Remember, Be Yourself! don't do anything that
you wouldn't normally do. You may be able to put up to
it for a week, even months, but hopefully not even years
coz eventually, your true self will show. Your habits,
your likes, dislikes, how you look without all the beauty
products. If the person you like don't like you the way
you are, then its goodbye to him/her. There are plenty
other of people out there. But you should also be wary,
and keep a close eye on your bad habits, not so good
traits, and other weaknesses. For if these weaknesses
are the reasons why people don't like you, you should
change for the better. Be Yourself! achieve what you
want to achieve in life, study hard, play hard, enjoy
life! Work to make this world a better place to live
in! I'm sure you'll find the right person for you and
if not, the right person will find you! You should also
share your love to as much people as possible. If you
admire someone, there's no better time to tell her or
show her you admire her than now. Caution! again, you
SHOULD NOT! fall only for a pretty face! I mean, don't
fall in love to a person just because of their outside
appearance! That's NOT LOVE! That's Infatuation! I believe
that beauty is so over rated nowadays. I'm sure beauty
can get you to high places but the downside is you'll find
it very difficult to find true love... simply because you
are beautiful. Men can be so simple-minded that its
hard for them to resist to be attracted to a beautiful
face and a beautiful body. Men are men after all. They
are easily tempted by a woman's physical appearance and
to those who has curves in the right places. Men that are
into this should double their defenses cause appreciation
is one thing and lust is another. If perverted thoughts
cross your mind, better look away! and stay away! These
temptations will only ruin your life and change your
morals for the worse without you even noticing it.
LoVE IS NOT SKIN DEEP! Biblically speaking, the definition
of love may be found in the new testament,
1 Corinthians 13. It's easy enough to understand but
very hard to put to practice.
Friday, February 17, 2006
love.... not a choice
i now come down to the question of...
is love a choice?
or is love an emotional thing?
there is true love, puppy love, agape love,
brotherly love, crushes and even infatuations
does anyone really care of all these types of love?
in essence, if two people loves each other,
that's where love starts.
but it seems so hard to find someone who
will love you
why is it that time flies when one has
someone to talk to.
though people now have mp3 players much like
the walkman in the old days.
people use theses to keep them distracted while
waiting for the people whome they'll meet.
communication is such an essential part of
everyday life
that we humans have made every effort to make
to world a smaller place.
the advent of the telephone is just the start of
it.
now we have cellphones, chat rooms, blogs,
podcasts, satellite radios, portable tv.
even if one wants to live as an island,
one will be hard pressed to do so for technology
is creeping up everywhere.
and its supposed to make our life better.
i don't know about better but definitely easier.
easier in a sense that we can get more things
done in less time.
but i believe our quality of life is degrading.
ow.. nevermind. love is so complex that i can't
understand it up to now.
im completely clueless on this topic.
im better off wasting time on the world wide web
and watching tv, i guess.... but hope not.
is love a choice?
or is love an emotional thing?
there is true love, puppy love, agape love,
brotherly love, crushes and even infatuations
does anyone really care of all these types of love?
in essence, if two people loves each other,
that's where love starts.
but it seems so hard to find someone who
will love you
why is it that time flies when one has
someone to talk to.
though people now have mp3 players much like
the walkman in the old days.
people use theses to keep them distracted while
waiting for the people whome they'll meet.
communication is such an essential part of
everyday life
that we humans have made every effort to make
to world a smaller place.
the advent of the telephone is just the start of
it.
now we have cellphones, chat rooms, blogs,
podcasts, satellite radios, portable tv.
even if one wants to live as an island,
one will be hard pressed to do so for technology
is creeping up everywhere.
and its supposed to make our life better.
i don't know about better but definitely easier.
easier in a sense that we can get more things
done in less time.
but i believe our quality of life is degrading.
ow.. nevermind. love is so complex that i can't
understand it up to now.
im completely clueless on this topic.
im better off wasting time on the world wide web
and watching tv, i guess.... but hope not.
love... very complex
but why is love so complex to attain?
is it part of natural selection, cause we
are not attracted to every opposite sex of our
species?
but isnt our decisions on who we are attracted
to is clouded by our environment.... our friends,
our outlook in life and of course, the media.
expanding more....
media presents several celebrities whom gives
us an impression on what beauty is and should be
our peers may pressure us subconsiously with
them having boyfriends and girlfriends.
going out in malls, parks, etc is the same,
one sees pairs holding hands, holding each other
tight, etc.
what is it with these people anyways?
is the sense of touch really an important aspect
of being in a relationship?
our environment also is a factor for once upon a
time, beauty is exclusive to princesses, and to
those of royalty. up to now, we see those who
live in glamour and fame as beautiful.
maybe attraction is based on personal preference
but the problem is our personal preference
is not personal after all
it is subject to the environment in which
we live in
and the media brainwasing us?
is it part of natural selection, cause we
are not attracted to every opposite sex of our
species?
but isnt our decisions on who we are attracted
to is clouded by our environment.... our friends,
our outlook in life and of course, the media.
expanding more....
media presents several celebrities whom gives
us an impression on what beauty is and should be
our peers may pressure us subconsiously with
them having boyfriends and girlfriends.
going out in malls, parks, etc is the same,
one sees pairs holding hands, holding each other
tight, etc.
what is it with these people anyways?
is the sense of touch really an important aspect
of being in a relationship?
our environment also is a factor for once upon a
time, beauty is exclusive to princesses, and to
those of royalty. up to now, we see those who
live in glamour and fame as beautiful.
maybe attraction is based on personal preference
but the problem is our personal preference
is not personal after all
it is subject to the environment in which
we live in
and the media brainwasing us?
love... what is it exactly?
do we need love?
yes.
can we live without it?
definitely not.
is it easy to attain?
yes and no.
if the love one is talking about is with
regards to friends and family, to acquaintances
and even to enemies
its almost easier said than done
except to our enemies.
of all the things in life one can attain,
wealth, in monetary terms
material things, jewelry, tech stuff, etc.
love, is the one hardest thing to attain
maybe its because love is not a thing.
its an emotion? a way of thinking?
why is love needed anyways?
can one be happy without love?
of all the distractions we have now
in terms of fun, games, etc.
we have playstation games, pc games, arcades
cellphones, mp3 players, palm pilots,
heck! even the world wide web
are we being self-centered with each and every
passing moment?
these distractions are brought about by
the rapid advance in computer technology.
one may delve into other realities by immersing
oneself in role playing games and multi-player
online games but the thought of having someone
to care for and be cared for will forever remain
it will haunt us even if we distract ourselves
with neverending work and games.
i guess no one person can live in this world and
be happy by living as an island.
yes.
can we live without it?
definitely not.
is it easy to attain?
yes and no.
if the love one is talking about is with
regards to friends and family, to acquaintances
and even to enemies
its almost easier said than done
except to our enemies.
of all the things in life one can attain,
wealth, in monetary terms
material things, jewelry, tech stuff, etc.
love, is the one hardest thing to attain
maybe its because love is not a thing.
its an emotion? a way of thinking?
why is love needed anyways?
can one be happy without love?
of all the distractions we have now
in terms of fun, games, etc.
we have playstation games, pc games, arcades
cellphones, mp3 players, palm pilots,
heck! even the world wide web
are we being self-centered with each and every
passing moment?
these distractions are brought about by
the rapid advance in computer technology.
one may delve into other realities by immersing
oneself in role playing games and multi-player
online games but the thought of having someone
to care for and be cared for will forever remain
it will haunt us even if we distract ourselves
with neverending work and games.
i guess no one person can live in this world and
be happy by living as an island.
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